Here are answers to some of the most common questions about the forum and our non-profit organization. Not all rape is violent; not all abuse is repeated. If you are looking for support, reassurance, or help naming what happened, consider joining the board.If this FAQ doesn't answer your questions, you may contact us at any time. We honor what happened to you, and there is no need to compare your experience to someone else's. My wife/husband was just raped - My girlfriend/boyfriend told me she was sexually abused. First of all, please know that it will get better and you are not alone. Join because you have never written the words, "I was raped" or "I was sexually abused." Join because you want to tell your survivor story.
To illustrate that, this isn't just a note about our 600th conviction, but rather that we're shooting beyond 600 with two convictions scheduled to be posted each week until mid-June. We've been getting convictions now since our first... If you'd like to help us push towards 700, swing by our forums and say hello on our discord.
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If you are in need of immediate assistance, please contact your local emergency number, rape crisis center, or 1-800-656-HOPE. If you have been the victim of rape, sexual assault, or sexual abuse, you belong at Pandy's. You deserve to heal, and no one on Pandy's will tell you to "get over it" because it wasn't bad. Check out our section for secondary survivors for more information. Join because being sexually violated is one of the most isolating things that can happen.
We also have additional information for you if you are in crisis. Additionally, friends, family, and partners of survivors are welcome to join. Join to have a place to post when you were triggered by a movie or a smell or a sound. Join because you live in a rural area with no support groups or rape crisis center.Join because by doing so, you join arms with thousands of others who understand. If you're under 16, we have some resources available to help you find assistance. We are joined by chat moderators, who host monthly topic chats; section moderators, who have expertise in particular areas; and Team Welcome, a group dedicated to our newest members. We are here for ALL sexual violence survivors, and survivors don't always fit a mold. We won't go away next week, and we are always improving. Pandy's gets 1,000 new posts a day and has nearly a million archived posts. Then, we want to get to know you a little bit due to the real-time nature of chat, and the close connections survivors make in the chat room.Join for whatever reason it takes for you to get help. You can find step-by-step registration instructions here. Users under 18 need permission from their parents to use websites like this. We try our hardest to make this board a safe and healthy place for all sexual violence survivors. As different as we all might be, we are united because we are survivors. You own your story and can tell it when and how you want. Some members read silently for years before posting an introduction. First and most importantly, our members are wonderful, wise, supportive, insightful, caring and kind. Fourth, we strive to make Pandy's as safe as an internet site can be because we know how sensitive these topics are. Once you have been a member for at least one week and you have posted on the message board at least ten times, you will be eligible to enter the chat room. We are a non-profit corporation registered in the State of Minnesota. was recognized by the IRS as a 501(c)(3) tax exempt organization in July 2008. Why do some other survivor forums resemble Pandy's so much? Pandora's Aquarium was the first to form a message board like this, and with nearly ten years of experience running an online forum for rape and sexual abuse survivors, we believe we have a good thing going.In April 2016 we've hit a new milestone, that of conviction number 600! On average, 50 convictions a year for twelve years now.We've been working hard behind the scenes, still hitting the rooms and working with police. For those of you who only know us from "To Catch a Predator", we were working hard before TCAP and we're working hard after TCAP.Group Video Chats Setting up group video chats with your friends has never been easier.